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| Hi, were new to the nude lifestlye and love every minute of it. We are going back to Deer Park again on Sat. Question, why is there some many men and so little women, why is'nt there more women involved. please shed some insight on this topic, thanks. | |
| I really wish we knew the answer to that...so we could fix it. ;) In all honesty...it takes a pretty strong woman to take the plunge and experience nudism in a social setting. Some have body image issues, don't feel they are pretty enough, skinny enough, proportioned well enough, not tone enough... Most women we've met are pretty accepting of who they are and what they are. They don't worry much about what anyone else thinks...they are comfortable with themselves, their bodies and their lifestyle choices. It wasn't like that in the very beginning for some. My wife had some trouble being socially nude with dozens of people but was comfortable in a more intimate setting with just a few friends. Women also like routine and knowing the ins and outs of nude resorts. They don't want to feel as though they are being watched or critiqued when they are in those situations like, disrobing, setting up their lounges and belongings...seems strange but many of our friends like to have a routine so there aren't any...foul ups, while setting up their space! LOL With ALL that...you have the other extreme...males who are so comfortable with nudity that they'll push that envelop to be naked whenever and wherever they can. They think of nothing when the opportunity arises to drop their clothes where they stand. Most guys are not body image conscious and are more apt to say..."I really don't care what they say about me or my body!" I know it's not the answer you're looking for but you'll get more insight as to how others think or feel about your question! Have fun a Deer Park. I'll get up there again someday but it'll be during the week. Weekends we usually go to Glen Eden, where we are members. FP | |
| Guys thanks for the insight, and yes it helps me in the understanding.I/we are new to this, deer park a few weeks ago was our very FIRST time being nude anywere.We loved it, took to it like a duck to water.We entered the pool area, there were about 15 men, 2 women, I had on a sundress with nothing on under it, took it off and yes we got some looks but I think they were looks that any new people would get when being some were for the first time.I felt very welcome, met some really nice people, mostly men, very friendly, my husband is such a kick back guy, he does'nt worry about anything.I like to talk to people, so I spent time talking with others.I walked around nude for the whole day,to and from the bathroom,stood in front of total strangers talking and laughing and never once did I feel judged or felt uneasy that I needed to cover up.I hope this weekend will be the same, I would like to talk and get to know some women there,last time the two women wasn't very friendly, maybe this time will be better, hey thanks guys for your imput, it helps. | |
| I don't know that I'd take the negative reception, by the women, personally...yet! Most of those that you'll encounter with that type of attitude are residents and they sometimes forget that those of us visiting for the day...also help pay for maintanence and upgrades to the club. They, at times, see us as "users" til we..."prove" ourselves to them as worthy visitors! LOL It will pass and they will get to know who you are and will be more accepting. One thing to realize is that with you personality and being open and friendly...they probably don't see that much from the female visitors (first timers) so they may have been taken back by your willingness to socialize your first visit. Again...don't change a thing. You'll fit right in, in no time! :) | |
| Thanks,my husband says the same thing,I'am the same type of person(friendly)dressed or nude.Do you think because a woman is friendly its precieved as something sinfull,and then when nude, its taken the wrong way,I read comments that long time nudist seem to all say is after the the newest of being nude wares off then people don't even notice that your nude.Thats the feeling I got with the guys,but they were all wearing dark sun glasses,so I like to think when they were talking to me they were looking at my eyes.My husband says I over think things, he also says who cares what people look at,there people, some with good intentions, and some are there for other reasons.He says let them look,stare,gawk, who cares, he could care less, just as long as they are polite and respectfull.The big guy says honey you have fun and be nice and respectfull to other members at all times,stop thinking so much,and stop bothering me about crap that means nothing.If somebody is disrespectfull to you then you tell me,and then they will have a big problem on there hands,other than that grab a book and a beer and enjoy the day.I guess all in all it's more of a adjustment then I first thought. | |
| Well...don't think ill of me...I wear dark sunglasses most of the time. I have very light sensitive eyes and need to wear sunglasses most of the daylight hours and even have to wear tinted glasses at night when driving. Everyone looks! Anyone that tells you different is not being honest. We are curious creatures and look at everyone. Gawking, stearing, glaring...not cool, but glacing or momentary watching is something many of us do...even to clothed people. I can't tell you how many times my wife and I sit on a bench at Disneyland with a box of popcorn and a diet Coke and people watch. It's no different at a nude resort, club or beach...except we usually don't have the popcorn! I don't take it personally if I'm talking to a male or female and their eyes shift from my eyes to points south...momentarily. It's the ones that focus on your southern regions and stop talking to you because their focus has changed from YOU to YOUR body I've noticed a few females that have similar scars as I do from a recent gall bladder surgery. It's something that we have in common and we've discussed how it's changed our lives afterwards...and that's something I found by glancing at their torso's. We've talked to women and congratulated them on being survivors of breast cancer...noticing a surgical procedure. It's okay to look, glance but not cool to stare and focus your attention to one particular area that may make them feel uncomfortable. ;) | |
| "I can't tell you how many times my wife and I sit on a bench at Disneyland with a box of popcorn and a diet Coke and people watch. It's no different at a nude resort, club or beach...except we usually don't have the popcorn!" FP, I definitely want to meet you and your wife! My wife and I do the same thing. It is great fun! John | |
| Very nice, it is nice to hear from very classy and RESPECTFILL men, I would love to meet some new people, we will be at deerpark this Sat,thanks again guys. |
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