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Absolute Naturists Males Friending Females ONLY... What do you think?
| What do you think about men who friend women only here on NCH? I have noticed that there are a number of men who join NCH and they friend ONLY females. What is with this? Personally, and I state this in my profile, I am not a big fan of friending on NCH and I don't get the Facebook thing either. When I see the subject of the topic going on with a fellow wh has ask to be my friend a big red flag go's up in my book. Maybe it is just me, what are your thoughts. | |
| I think if they're only friending women, they are looking for something more than what meets the eye. | |
| When I get a friend request from a man the first thing I do is check out his friends in his profile. If t hey are all women I know what he is after and quickly decline. Others that have a mix of people I check to see if my husband is a friend or not, or if he knows of him. Then I will finish checking myself before I make a decision. If I accept any friend I want someone that has interests that are sort of similar to mine. | |
| I dont do a lot of friend requests on here...whats the point? However I would hope to eventually meet a female nudist from this site. It is not my first priority by any means. The nudist singles sites are a joke. the only real nudist are here so occasionaly I will make a friend request. I used to get what I believed were gay men...not interested in that either. Lets not be so judgemental. Those of you who are in relationships with a nudist are lucky...really lucky. Those of us who are not but who would like to be are hopeful. | |
| If they are looking for a Female "friend", they need to be on another type of website/chatroom. There are plenty of them out there, and are geared towards that sort of behavior. There was one male in the NCH chatroom yesterday (with no cam on), specifically concerned that there were no nude women chatting. When I asked him if he had a cam, he quickly left. | |
| I'm not sure what the benefit is on this site to "friending" someone. In any event, it would seem to me that exchanging a couple of messages before asking someone to "friend" would be a prudent thing to do. That should also clarify intent. In the main I think you are probably right, though. | |
| I am not into friending anyway and more often just accept friend requests if I wish depending on who I see in a profile. I don't go out of my way to send friend requests unless they are someone I already know. Guys friending only all women is a little weird. Then what about the women who must check the guys profile before accepting? | |
| I'm a friendly guy ... I usually like to make friends with everyone ... unless they are SO narrow-minded that they think their way is the only way and their opinion is ALL that matters. I have a mix. I either had some good conversations with people on the boards and carried those onto email and so I thought being a friend would be good for future conversations. Sometimes I make friends with someone that has lots in common with me, us and our family. I make friends in areas I'd like to visit ... so I can get some first hand information on nudist opportunities in that area. Others ... I just like their attitude...even if we don't agree on everything! I am cautious but not cynical. Not every guy that has lots of female friends is a perv. Not every young female nudist is a troll. True ... you must weed through many to get to the real ones but once you've found some of them ... they can be good to talk to and get to know. I've made a few young female friends on nudist message boards. We converse frequently about their lives and our lives. Some of the others ... don't exist on the sites anymore and I've deleted their friendships. Males friending Females ONLY ... you and I know who they are and I don't accept friendship from them or request it. ;) | |
| Having been single once, twice actually, I can understand guys that hope to find a nudist female to perhaps bond with. Some guys with good intentions, go about it the wrong way, and hopefully will learn what they're doing wrong. And then there are some men who are just plain idiots. | |
| Cyberharem. He's a mack. | |
| What is a mack? I think the guys on NCH that do that are fake nudists just wanting to see pictures of nude women and/or get a thrill out of having nude women as friends. They could be homo-phobes as well. In either case, they are stupid and don't belong here. I am considering dumping them from our group as FireProf has advised me. It just feels "icky" to me. They don't do this site any good. ok, anyway as I have said before, I think the whole friending thing on here is just BS. Really, why would I want to be "friends" with somebody I will never meet nor probaby even interestd in meeting. If I want to be your friend, and there are a few, I will ask you and you can decide. I say that on my NCH profile. I still think it is BS, just like Facebook. | |
| Some of the friends on my profile have asked me to be friends for certain reasons and I figured I'd give them a benefit of the doubt. But like other social media sites, they make the first move to request friendship and then you never hear from them again. Purge Time! ;) | |
| Mack or Mack Daddy: MACK DADDY. 1. slang: a conspicuously successful pimp . 2. slang: a slick womanizer . | |
| I'm 63 years old and happily married, so i'm just looking for good nice people, male or female or transgender if they seem to be nice people. I'm glad I added some of my friends. this week I got to meet one in person. He is the office mgr for Oaklake Trails Nudist Resort in OK. Now to get back on track. Men friending only attractive women made me suspicous of this club, but now that I have made more observations I realize who the real Mcoys are. | |
| I'm ALWAYS suspicious of young females wanting to "friend" ME! hahahaha | |
| I have had the same thoughts on another nudist social site I was on with my wife looking over my shoulder thinking the same, by the way is the reason she will not register anywhere on an online nudist site. Coming here to Nudist Clubhouse has been a great experience. Here I may get her interested :-) | |
| Whelp. I guess this is a pointing of fingers secession. I have tried some of the other sites out there, but found that women are just as bad as men, all they want is sex. Example: The group owner has some preconceived notion about single men, and why do they only have female friends here, myself I prefer to because I thought this site was an open minded group of people. I've been a Nudist for along time and would like to share it with a like minded women. This group owner could have explained her reason to me personally, why she declined when I sent her a request to her and her partner. Did you Paste a label on my back when I wasn't looking, appears you have. We all want friends and companions being women, or men, it's our given choice. | |
| If I've an exchange of emails or personally know someone or it's someone from my part of the country, I don't care if it's male or female. I do look at the information on the profile as I'm a "vanilla" nudist. If it's anything sexual at all, I most like will decline the friendship or if it's blank I will as well. Everyone who does actually read my profile knows I'm a happily married woman who runs a nonlanded club based in the Carolinas. | |
| Well it looks like I have ruffled a few feathers on my topic posts recently. I have said this group welcomes challenging opinions and discussions. As owner of the group I am not changing that because a a few dented egos. Truenenza, get it right before waving a finger at me. I am clearly on record that the Freinds thing here on NCH is not my thing. Further in my profile I state "RE: NCH Friends- If I want to be your friend... I will ask you and you can decide if you want to be my friend. In short guys, please don't ask.". Obviously you either did not bother to read my profile like all the other men who ask to be my friend almost every day -or- you thought you were on a special list -or- you just didn't care what I said. I did appreciate your sincere note that you sent with the friend request but it did not give you a free pass. I don't believe I ask you if you wanted to be my "NCH Friend". You don't have the negative experiences that I and some of the other women have had in this regard. By reading some of the posts I am obviously not alone in my thinking or rational. This is not about you so quit taking it personally. One more thing, this in not a finger pointing session and I am as free as you are to express my opinion on any topic on any group I am a member of as you have and do. Shall we move on... | |
| Well this topic kinda went off on its own...... I would say you should ask them "why", there may be a reason. Perhaps the person in question is more comfortable conversing with just ladies or just men. I do not believe roping them all into a preconceived group is correct path. Is a married man on this site because his wife is not a nudist trolling to see naked women? Maybe... maybe not. I for one have 69 "friends" on here that I have never met, most are from Ohio in hopes that one day of possible meeting at a resort or something and the rest are people that I have chatted with in the chat room. Do I accept every friend request........... hells no. We are all adults here (or should be) and we should all know how to take care of ourselves especially when meeting people on a computer. If you google NCH under the address it says "A social networking site for nudists and naturists and those interested in nude recreation" so never accepting friend requests or those people that have been a member for over a year and have no friends worry me hella more then some guy with 50 female friends and no male ones. I do not know if its the nature (see how I did that :) ) of the members of this community but it seems from time to time on certain beliefs or topics that there is far more exclusionary focus put on groups of people or individuals themselves. oops got off track myself. If someone wants a type of person as there friends then who are any of us to judge. -- Humanity needs to be more caring, accepting and loving of each other and humanity should start right here and now -- | |
| I'm still in my learning curve on this site. I think I requested u as a friend Bunny. Sorry about my ignorance. On the home page, u stand out and look really friendly. I think thats why u get a lot of requests.I thought adding friends was the thing to do. I kind of like the favorites concept. I am in the process of unfriending the members that I think are not sincere. I feel uncomfortable in the chat room sometimes. it's usally all men. when the conversation goes soputh i get ou and come back later. I just wonder why the chat room doesn't attract more family type profiles. I think it might be for the same reason that makes me uncomfortable sometimes. | |
| After reading FireProf's post about after getting a friend request from someone and never hearing from them made me think that I am guilty of that at times. I have written to people on my friends list and a number never reply. I have so many things I am involved it that I find I am not getting on NCH as much as I would like. How many other people on here do not write or try to contact the people on their friends list? I bet it is a large amount. | |
| I could use all the friends I can get. I do not have a premium membership otherwise I would try sending messages to my friend requests. I am a man that likes women. I make mostly women requests. I need to meet all the members of the opposite sex I can to find someone compatible. I'm just not able to do that right now. I am currently in graduate school trying to obtain a way to make a living. I think guys should make a lot more female friend requests than male requests, especially if they are single. | |
| Well said Tommy. You have made that clear on ur profile. I thk the members who do not give info on their profile give u singles a bad name. We know that those bad apples r out there. |
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