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Absolute Naturists Is the Textile World more sexualized than the Nudist World?
bakodb Posted: May 5, 2013	Barefreedom, you most accurately nailed the cause...$$$ In nearly any aspect of life following the $$$ will lead you to cause or reason for a problem.
Absolute Naturists Is the Textile World more sexualized than the Nudist World?
bakodb Posted: May 2, 2013	Without a question...YES!!! Most everything is sexualized now but so many clothes are DESGINED to draw attention to the sexual. Breasts, butts, tight pants that emphasize what is commonly referred to a "camel toe" on women as well as men's clothing to make them the most sexually appealing. One trip to a nudist beach or resort and you'll notice the difference immediately. Although we may still notice areas of attraction on another person, those areas aren't the focus of another's attention (at least it shouldn't be).
Absolute Naturists Would the world be a better place if nudity was a human right and allowed ?
bakodb Posted: Apr 5, 2013	Without a doubt it would be. I also believe there would be a dramatic decrease in sexual crimes, teen pregnancy rates, and suicides. So much damage is done due to lack of self confidence and a lot of that is due to lack of body acceptance. Widespread nudity as a right isn't a cure-all for societal ills but it would certainly be a positive step for many. How many people have put off getting medical attentnion they need due to the embarassment of someone seeing their nude body? Maybe if the stigma of nudity was removed some could save their own lives by getting the medical attention needed (i.e. mammograms, colonoscopys, etc).
AANR Updates Another California Nude Beach Threatened
bakodb Posted: Mar 5, 2013	Jim, in this case it seems to be a money grab for SLO county. Locals and many out of towners (like us) enjoy the setting. The beach is very nice. It would take a relatively modest investment to make it more accessible for going downhill and the hike back up.At the moment it's not the safest trail and without improvements the county could set themselves up for injury lawsuits. Personally, I don't think it's too dangerous but a sue-happy person would revel in the opportunity. They would probably pave the parking area and set up pay meters like other areas in the county. I first heard from some locals about 2 years ago that this idea was being floated around. It looks like it may happen.
AANR Updates Another California Nude Beach Threatened
bakodb Posted: Mar 4, 2013	We were just there yesterday and it seemed awfully quiet for a comfortable Sunday afternoon. This beach has been frequented by nudists since the 1960s from what I've been told by some of the old-timers there. It would be a shame for SLO county to take it over and ruin the only nude beach in the Central California area. It was kind of odd yesterday that the beach wasn't too busy although the weather was perfect, especially after 12:00. We plan on going back soon and enjoying it while we can.
Absolute Naturists Are Nudist's Really Free Spirits?
bakodb Posted: Mar 4, 2013	When the term "free spirit" is used to describe someone, I think of someone that marches to their own drummer. They seem oblivious to what others think and have little self-awareness. With that motive, they aren't being mean or thoughtless. However, some people go against the grain in an effort to show off their individuality and independence. They have an in-your-face mentality. This is the type that seems to thrive on confrontation. I've seen both types on this website and in my social nude encounters. Even though the free spirits may seem peculiar and unpredictable, I've always enjoyed their company. I avoid the confrontational since they feed off any disagreements they have. To be clear, some confrontation is necessary in all areas of our life, especially our nudist rights. It's the ones that constantly need a fight or argument to be happy that I avoid.
Conservative Naturists Joining a group just to make fun of them
bakodb Posted: Jan 6, 2013	I have been a registered Libertarian for many years. I have supported the Republican presidential candidate the past two elections because they were far less Socialist/Marxist than the opponent. I have issues with the religious right of the Republican Party. Like John, I prefer to be loyal to the purpose and intents of the Constitution. Still, I will respect the opinions of those different from mine. I have good friends that are both liberal and conservative and I know they believe they are doing the right thing.
Just for fun Always wondered about this
bakodb Posted: Jan 5, 2013	I've always been confused about the phrase "cute as a bug." I've never seen a cute bug.
Just for fun Boxer, briefs, or commando?
bakodb Posted: Dec 30, 2012	Boxers when leaving the house but nothing at all at home.
Absolute Naturists Do you consider Nudism a Hobby?
bakodb Posted: Dec 8, 2012	To me, a hobby is something I do simply because it's fun or challenges my mind (such as crossword puzzles). Nudism is something that both of us do because it is the way we are most comfortable. Whenever possible and practical I can guarantee that both of us are buck naked. Speaking for myself, I am more at ease socially while with fellow nudists. Not a hobby by the way I define a hobby.
Absolute Naturists Nudists and their clothing choices
bakodb Posted: Nov 18, 2012	Yes, clothing "fashion" is used to make a statement about yourself...Again, not a statement of who you really are but the impression you want to give others. It's great to be at a resort and see a naked person you've never met and have no idea about their profession,social, or economic status. It's a PERSON and you have the privilige of getting to know them without seeing their wardrobe or car they drive. Another nice thing about the clothes free life at a nudist resort...You never hear a woman ask her husband if her outfit makes her ass look big.
Absolute Naturists Nudists and their clothing choices
bakodb Posted: Nov 16, 2012	I apologize for not being more specific in my original post. There is a time and a place for special clothing, especially work. I've been in scrubs for work so many years it's easy to forget about that aspect of others lives. My focal point was that in the textile world so many people spend outrageous amounts of money to be "stylish" and "cool". Since we (wife and I) view clothing to be a neccessary evil, it motivates us to be as frugal as possible yet no one would ever accuse us of being slobs. Sometimes the thoughts in my head don't always translate as well on the keyboard.
Absolute Naturists Nudists and their clothing choices
bakodb Posted: Nov 14, 2012	The one thing I've noticed about my many nudist friends is that most of them don't bother with spending a lot on clothing. We both fit into that category. When we wear clothes they are clean but not flashy or expensive. Easily, 3/4 of our wardrobe is either Walmart or Target. I bring this up because we see clothing as a necessary evil. We clothe ourselves because of the anti-nudity laws and for physical comfort but don't wish to be caught in the rut of buying expensive designer clothes to try to impress others. Does anyone else do the same thing? Many in our group of friends are like this. Even the some of the more affluent ones don't invest much in their clothing. I'm curious to how the rest of you approach this part of your lives.
Conservative Naturists Personal Freedom
bakodb Posted: Nov 3, 2012	Nilo, you are absolutely correct. I'm tired of Republicans getting blamed for the mess here in Calif. Yes,we've had some Republican governors but the house and assembly have been DOMINATED by the Democrat party since the early 60s. Since the bills originate and are passed in the legislature and California is deteriorating into a cesspool of regulation and a deathly bloated beaurocracy. I have lived here most of my life and my wife has been here all of her life yet we are making plans to exit here next spring. We keep paying more taxes and seeing less in return. Crime is rampant and the prisons are crowded and corrupt from within. Non-producers keep getting larger and taking more while producers get stuck with the bill. No more for us.
Absolute Naturists Whats the longest time you've been able to stay nude
bakodb Posted: Oct 28, 2012	From a Friday afternoon to a Sunday afternoon several years ago at Glen Eden. Not a stitch of clothing for either of us that entire weekend.
Absolute Naturists Biggest Issues Facing Naturist/Nudist Community
bakodb Posted: Oct 27, 2012	In addition to JimShedd's comments we can be our own worst enemy at times. We preach body acceptance and tolerance for various lifestyles yet sometimes it isn't put into practice. We judge others because of their weight, sexual orientation, sexual lifestyles, and I've seen those with much more material possessions look down on those not as prosperous as they. Nudists are as diverse of a group as any other group of people. The man that first introduced us to social nudism told us that if we went to the local mall and just watched people that we'd see the same diversity within his club. The most important common bond we had was that we appreciated the freedom of a clothes-free gathering and acceptance of everyone. Republican, Democrats, Libertarians, monogamous, open lifestyle, swingers, Baptist, LDS, Catholics and atheists have all been a part of the diversity of people we've met. It hasn't hurt us to at least be friends and friendly to those different from us.
Conservative Naturists Libya
bakodb Posted: Oct 27, 2012	This whole episodes sickens me. The families of the victims are outraged and every right to be. The level of incompetence by this administration is disgusting and treasonous.
Absolute Naturists AN Group Chat... would you particpate?
bakodb Posted: Oct 27, 2012	Later in the evenings maybe after 8 PST would be good.
Absolute Naturists Nudist Clubs/Resorts in Your Area
bakodb Posted: Oct 24, 2012	We only have South Valley Travel Club in this area. A non-landed club in the southern San Joaquin Valley. There are no landed resorts within a 3 hour drive of our house.
Absolute Naturists Pets... What role do they play in your life?
bakodb Posted: Oct 24, 2012	We have a 9 year old mini schnauzer/doxy mix. He is a member of the family. He loves to cuddle and chase soap bubbles. He never seems to run out of energy chasing those silly bubbles. He is great companionship for us.
Nudist who just dont care... AANR
bakodb Posted: Oct 13, 2012	We terminated our AANR membership several years ago. We still belong to TNS and enjoy their quarterly magazines.TNS is handy to get discounted rates at some resorts.
Conservative Naturists One Party Rule
bakodb Posted: Oct 10, 2012	Lacey, I believe the Dems do understand the damage it's doing to the state, just like Obama knows his actions hurt the country. You are correct though, they haven't met a fee/tax/fine etc. that they don't like.
NorthWest Outdoor Nudists What makes you think you are a Nudist?
bakodb Posted: Oct 7, 2012	For the two of us, it's quite simple...we've always enjoyed being nude together, and not just for sex. We took it a step farther about 15 years ago on a nude beach and we've never looked back. I have a hard time putting into words how free and relaxed we are when unclothed. It's even more liberating when a large group can congregate in a relaxed and fun manner. At least on our part, there's nothing about "showing off" or being an exhibitionist. We do it for our pleasure and don't worry if we're being looked at or not. Our only regret is that we can't do it full time. Maybe in our retirement years we can inch closer to that reality.
Absolute Naturists Nude with a Movie Star
bakodb Posted: Oct 5, 2012	I should have added my wife's preferences...George Strait,Alan Jackson, or Tom Selleck.
Conservative Naturists debate pounding
bakodb Posted: Oct 5, 2012	Like most people, I was impressed by Romney's performance. What is even more amazing to me is that Romney still has many cards he hasn't even played yet. I hope Obama brings up Bain Capital ... Romney will clean his clock on that one as well!
Absolute Naturists Are Nudists/Naturists Cool People?
bakodb Posted: Oct 5, 2012	A vast majority I have met are very cool and down to earth people. We have met a few uppity snobs but they are certainly a small minority. What we find so cool about most nudists is that subjects that are often not discussed in mixed company are much easily discussed when everyone is nude. Not sure what the psychological reason is for that but it usually holds true.
Absolute Naturists Nude with a Movie Star
bakodb Posted: Oct 5, 2012	Someone who seems comfortable in their own skin...someone like Kate Winslet or Helen Mirren. I've heard that Amy Grant enjoys nudism so she would be a good option as well.
Absolute Naturists 3 Most FUN Outdoor Things to do Nude
bakodb Posted: Oct 4, 2012	Reading, swimming or any pool activity, cuddling
Absolute Naturists A Breakthrough
bakodb Posted: Oct 4, 2012	Congrats New Adv. I enjoy reading positive and uplifting stories!
Absolute Naturists How Do You Sleep?
bakodb Posted: Oct 4, 2012	Of course I like sleeping nude. Sleeping out of covers becomes a necessity because my wife hogs them all! (don't get the wrong idea, I love that woman so much and wouldn't trade her for anything!)
Absolute Naturists Nudism and Obesity
bakodb Posted: Oct 4, 2012	Thank you for your reasoned response FireProf. I can't think of anything to add to it.
Just for fun How often are you naked?
bakodb Posted: Jul 27, 2012	Nearly 100% of the time at home. The exception being having company over. Wished we lived within an hour drive of a resort.
Just for fun What do you want to be when you grow up?
bakodb Posted: Jul 17, 2012	To live and work at a nudist resort.
Absolute Naturists Female Body Acceptance and Social Nudity
bakodb Posted: Jul 16, 2012	I've been very fortunate. My wife grew up very self conscious about her body but once she agreed to try a nude beach far enough from home. She was naturally apprehensive but after the intial awkwardness she became a natural. She tells me that it's one of the best things she's ever done. She isn't trying to impress anyone, just enjoying the comfort of having no clothes. I'm surprised more women like her don't take to the lifestyle as easily because you couldn't have found a more shy and self conscious person than her 15 years ago.
CA Valley Nudes Valley Nudes
bakodb Posted: Jul 16, 2012	Bakersfield
Absolute Naturists Updating your photo. Should it be mandatory?
bakodb Posted: Jun 28, 2012	Doesn't matter. I'm just as ugly now as the pic that was taken about 4 years ago :-)
Absolute Naturists AANR & TNS Memberships
bakodb Posted: Jun 26, 2012	We belong to TNS only. We have nothing against AANR but rather than pay yearly dues to 2 nudist/naturist groups plus our local club dues, we chose to keep TNS membership.
Absolute Naturists Pole Dancing at Nudist Clubs... Should it be allowed?
bakodb Posted: Jun 24, 2012	I agree with C-Ohome. Banned? No. However if AANR decides it doesn't want to be affiliated with a nudist business then they have that legal right to remove them as an affiliated club. Like the poster stated: it's about choices. AANR would be wrong to do so but again, it's their business to set down rules and regulations for affiliates and members and if we don't like it...too bad. Neither of us would care to participate in that activity but always respect the decisions of the ones that do. Again...that wonderful thing we all enjoy...freedom to choose. Let's never lose that.
Absolute Naturists What is Nudist Weather?
bakodb Posted: Jun 4, 2012	Anything above 65 as long as it isn't too windy. With moderate wind probably 70 or so. I stay warm easily although my wife is more inclined to need it warmer. Inside the house as long as the thermostat is set at 68 in the winter she is fine.
Just for fun Miscellaneous attitudes about and toward toward Nudism!
bakodb Posted: May 30, 2012	The most common is that the nudist world is full of perverts and sexual deviants. I have yet to see a male at a resort showing any kind of excitement and have seen very little overt sexual conduct...and that was at a New Year's party at a resort and the booze had been flowing freely. Of course the obvious challenge is to have the naysayers go to a resort or club and see for themselves but asking them to be informed is being too unreasonable to them. What is interesting to me is that just about EVERYONE that has tried a nudist experience has LOVED IT. Very few that say they'd never do it again.
Sports Talk 2012 Stanley Cup Finals
bakodb Posted: May 30, 2012	Gotta love the grit and hustle of this year's Kings. If Quick keeps playing like he has, the Stanley Cup should be theirs in about 5 or 6 games.
Absolute Naturists Topless Equalty
bakodb Posted: May 30, 2012	Of course women should be free to be topless everywhere. Sadly, it's a cultural issue for Americans more than a moral one. Too many only associate females breasts with sexuality. While they may be attractive for men to look at, men's chests are also attractive to many women, including my own sweet wife's. That doesn't make it dirty or immoral either way. Plus, from this male's perspective, if they wanted to cover up the most alluring part of a woman's body, they'd have to cover their faces because to me the face and smile are the most attractive features on a woman.
Absolute Naturists Is Nudist Life Really a Lonely Life?
bakodb Posted: May 30, 2012	Not lonely for us but it is somewhat secretive. We have made many good friends through nudism and it's hard to be lonely around good friends.
Absolute Naturists Who should nudist fear most?
bakodb Posted: May 23, 2012	SB, I'm not sure why my post was considered off-topic, but since a moderator thought so I deleted it. I'll never be disrespectful to anyone or engage in inflamatory rhetoric. No hard feelings at all here. It's a moderator's prerogative and right to keep the group in their desired direction. I choose to join groups in which I have a genuine interest or affinity. When I no longer have that interest then I'll graciously leave. NOTE from SB: No worries here,we're cool. Let's here more from you on all the other topics we have on AN. Thanks for being part of the group.
Absolute Naturists Who should nudist fear most?
bakodb Posted: May 23, 2012	I removed my previous post. I'm not sure why it was considered to be contrary to the intentions of the group moderators but I'm not one to create trouble. The question was about whom to fear most and I gave my honest opinion. Maybe I misunderstood the intent of the question. If you feel that because of my opinions I don't belong in this group, then I'll leave without complaint.
Absolute Naturists Why do you call yourself a Nudist or Naturist?
bakodb Posted: May 21, 2012	I've never been sure which best describes myself or my wife. We both enjoy being nude when possible and practical. Indoors, outdoors, in nature, at a resort...it's all good. We enjoy and appreciate the beauty of the natural resources that God has given us. So, call us nudists, naturists, nekkid people, whatever...it's fine with us.
Missouri Nudists Need to make some new nude changes for Missouri.
bakodb Posted: May 21, 2012	Looks like Missouri needs more places for nudists of ANY age. You are right, though. Not much for a younger nudist in Missouri except in the privacy of his/her home or backyard. We've moving to the Springfield area next year and we don't see much within a two hour drive.
Absolute Naturists Naked Shopper in New York
bakodb Posted: May 21, 2012	According to the article, she just walked in and carried on casual conversations with people. There was no reports of any sexually deviant behavior. That's why I objected to the term lewd. If public nudity isn't illegal then her arrest made no sense (doesn't make sense anyhow but that's another story).
Skinny Dippers and Chubby Dunkers Swimming Nude
bakodb Posted: May 21, 2012	I've always loved the water but hated the clinging of trunks to my skin. I couldn't imagine taking a shower with the trunks on but somehow I was suppose to cover up the "dirty parts" when swimming with mixed company. There's only two letters that I can think of to express my dislike of that concept...BS. I have only had to wear trunks on a few occassions in the past 15 years and all it did was reaffirm my love for nudism and nudists.
Sports Talk NFL schedules
bakodb Posted: May 20, 2012	Packers 13-3 and Super Bowl champs again!
Middle Aged and Nude piling on the pounds
bakodb Posted: May 20, 2012	Same issue here! My knees are still strong but the back limits most excercise except moderate walking. Portion control is my best option as well. I also use as many fat free or low fat options as possible. Metabolism does have a great deal to do with it though and some of us are slower than others. I have a brother 3 years younger that eats more than I do and drinks a WHOLE lot more than I do and has had two back surgeries. Still, he has no problem controlling his weight. Is that fair? Of course not. In the words of the great Johnny Carson, "If life were fair, Elvis would be alive and the impersonators would be dead."
Absolute Naturists Naked Shopper in New York
bakodb Posted: May 20, 2012	http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/upstate-york-woman-busted-naked-stroll-lumber-store-article-1.1079762 Interesting story about a 49 year old woman that casually walked into two upstate NY stores and acted normally...sans clothes of course. She was cited with misdemeanor public lewdness. I don't know this woman but I wonder what her motive was. Was she a legitimate nudist that was tired of anti-nudity laws? An exhibitionist? What bothers me about the charges was that it was for public "lewdness" The term lewd to me is akin to vulgar or dispicable. Why not just charge her with public nudity since that seems to be the crime? Your thoughts?
Absolute Naturists Slow Dancing Nude
bakodb Posted: May 18, 2012	Neither of us have a problem with it. I've never considered slow dancing nude in a very public area the appropriate place for anything overtly sexual. Slow dance with your partner is if he/she were wearing clothes and you'll be fine. Even in the textile world there in inadvertant brushing or touching and should be dismissed as such.
Absolute Naturists National NUDE Donut Day
bakodb Posted: May 18, 2012	AndyBee, I don't think I have that "app" on my Iphone or Ipad :-) Besides, the model in the pic is WAY overdressed!
Absolute Naturists Swimming?Volleyball,?Tennis?Billiards?Golf?Jogging?Biking? etc.
bakodb Posted: May 18, 2012	Nude water volleyball is a blast...or any water sport is better in the nude. Nude Wii is also a blast!
Absolute Naturists National NUDE Donut Day
bakodb Posted: May 17, 2012	How about a buttermilk bar or apple fritter? Those would be enjoyable while sitting nude at the table and reading the paper.
Absolute Naturists Introduce Yourself
bakodb Posted: May 17, 2012	We're a happily married couple of 28 years with 2 kids and 4 grandkids. We are both nude at home as much as possible and enjoy social nudism. We don't take ourselves too seriously. We have never skinny dipped but we sure do love to go chunky dunking! Since our first visit to a nude beach in 1997, we've been convinced that this is the life for us. One couple in particular that we've met because of nudism has been some of our best friends for nearly 10 years. We've had the privelige of meeting many others and we're always anxious to meet more. We don't get to travel to clubs out of town too much but we have enjoyed our local non-landed club for many years. We have plans on moving to SW Missouri by June of next year so we'll have to find some Ozark nudists to beomee acquainted with. Bob and Denise
Absolute Naturists Clothing Optional vs Clothing Tolerant...Is there a difference?
bakodb Posted: May 17, 2012	I've never liked the clothing optional designation at a nudist resort. By definition there's a difference but in practice there isn't. There is still left an option to wear clothes. Other than inclimate weather or a certain time of month for the ladies, I feel that nudity should be mandatory. There are plenty of places to wear clothes, why bother going to a nudist resort to do so?
Las Vegas Nudists Welcome
bakodb Posted: May 16, 2012	Going to be in Vegas May 26-28. Would like to meet up for dinner and/or drinks with any fellow nudists that live in the Vegas area.
Couples The "couples"...how'd you meet/get into...nudism
bakodb Posted: May 5, 2012	We always enjoyed being nude when possible but used discretion with two pre-teens in the house. We often would go out to the back yard after the kids were in their rooms and skinny dip in our above ground pool. The kids knew what we were doing but also had no desire to see their parents naked so getting them to stay indoors was easy. We decided to be nude in public by visiting a nude beach (Pirate's Cove on Central California coast) in 1997. Once we got down the trail and on the beach, we both hesitated and nearly backed out. Finally I decided since we made the trip I better follow through. My wife followed suit by removing her top but it didn't take long for her to completely be nude. After just a few minutes of awkward self-conscious anxiety, we both felt so natural. We walked the beach and began to talk to other nudists. We couldn't believe how easy this was to do and how much we enjoyed it! It was such a non-sexual environment. No men with erections or trying to hit on the women. The beach was busy that day yet was so clean. We figured that nudists weren't slobs and took pride in their beach. A couple of years later we finally got a computer with a 56K modem (speedy huh?) and browsing the net discovered a local nudist club. The rest is history. That Saturday afternoon at Pirate's Cove was one the best things we ever did in our lives. It changed us and opened our minds.
Las Vegas Nudists Nudist Expo-who's going?
bakodb Posted: May 4, 2012	We're going to be in Vegas from the 26th to 29th so unfortunately we won't be able to make it to the expo. If any other nudists are going to be there during our stay, send us a message and maybe we can meet up for dinner.

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